When You Can't Let Them Go, but You Can't Take Them Back
/And you’ve gotten so close to moving on, but for some reason, something is always off...
Read MoreAnd you’ve gotten so close to moving on, but for some reason, something is always off...
Read MoreBe with someone who would never risk losing you.
Read MoreNo, dating you was not the end of their liberty; it was the beginning of it. But this is not what they’ll tell people. This is not what they’ll tell themselves.
Read MoreI know you’re looking for answers, for a reason why the person did what they did.
Read MoreWhen your light shined on me, it was everything. But when it was shining somewhere else, it was so cold.
Read MorePlease, don’t forget about all the nights you cried till you had no tears left. Don’t ever forget about why you broke up.
Read MoreThe first thing you do when you wake up again is check your phone and read your drunk texts - and then want to quietly bury yourself to death.
Read MoreYou probably think there's something wrong with you.
Read MoreWhat you don’t understand is nothing that’s worthwhile is ever easy.
Read MoreYou loved your ex more than you have ever loved anyone - but falling in love with someone should never result in falling out of love with yourself.
Read MoreYou can’t keep turning everything black in your path and blame people when they’ve had enough of your darkness.
Read MoreI don’t need anyone - if I’m with you, it’s because I want to be.
Read MoreLove doesn’t know religion or geography, time or age. It doesn’t care about whether it’s convenient for you, or whether the person is even compatible with you.
Read MoreYou deserve someone who will never make you feel like you have to compete.
Read MoreWhen they finally start to feel safe with you, they question it.
Read MoreYou and your best leave the club in search of food. You’re an actual gorilla in heat looking savage AF.
Read MoreBut the bottom line is, I don’t care what the reason was. I’m done hearing your excuses.
Read MoreLike an emotional vampire, you sucked my love dry.
Read MoreYou took your life back from what broke you. You need to understand how much strength that takes.
Read MoreWhen your light shined on me, it was everything. But when it was shining somewhere else, it was so cold.
Please, don’t forget about all the nights you cried till you had no tears left. Don’t ever forget about why you broke up.
What you don’t understand is nothing that’s worthwhile is ever easy.
You loved your ex more than you have ever loved anyone - but falling in love with someone should never result in falling out of love with yourself.
But the bottom line is, I don’t care what the reason was. I’m done hearing your excuses.
Most importantly, you are falling back in love with yourself. You are taking your life back from what broke you.
You did the hardest break-up that your heart will ever have to endure. You need to understand how brave you are.
You just don’t feel the need to go out of your way to be fake nice for people to accept or like you.
I’m not talking about the men. I’m talking about the douchelords - the guy that demonstrates all the qualities of being a douche so well, he could in fact be a deity among douches.
If someone is appearing thoughtless, they are not thinking about you. It’s not complicated.
You are not anyone’s “almost,” option or booty call. You are not a convenience, temporary satisfaction or an obligation.
The entirety of your being is a conundrum.
Ironically, my anxiety also keeps me moving forward.
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When she does open up to you, it’s everything. Being emotionally naked with someone is how she expresses her love.