When They Come Back to You, Please Don't Take Them Back -588K Shares
/Please, don’t forget about all the nights you cried till you had no tears left. Don’t ever forget about why you broke up.
Read MorePlease, don’t forget about all the nights you cried till you had no tears left. Don’t ever forget about why you broke up.
Read MoreYou can’t keep turning everything black in your path and blame people when they’ve had enough of your darkness.
Read MoreYou deserve someone who will never make you feel like you have to compete.
Read MoreWhen they finally start to feel safe with you, they question it.
Read MoreMost importantly, you are falling back in love with yourself. You are taking your life back from what broke you.
Read MoreWelcome to the modern dating world and in our dating world guys want to put zero effort in.
Read MoreYou did the hardest break-up that your heart will ever have to endure. You need to understand how brave you are.
Read MoreI’m not talking about the men. I’m talking about the douchelords - the guy that demonstrates all the qualities of being a douche so well, he could in fact be a deity among douches.
Read MoreIf someone is appearing thoughtless, they are not thinking about you. It’s not complicated.
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You have to let her go - for the both of you.
Read MoreYou are not anyone’s “almost,” option or booty call. You are not a convenience, temporary satisfaction or an obligation.
Read MoreYou only know true heartache when you see a girl in love with the man who broke your heart.
Read MoreShe doesn’t like the gooey stuff. The clichés.
Read MoreClubs are so noisy and annoying. And it doesn’t have dessert. Or a bed.
Read MoreYou think that because he's indecisive he's right — that his judgement and opinion of you are correct.
Read MoreRebellion for you consisted of dreaming of the day you would wear flip flops to the airport and go out on both Friday and Saturday night.
Read MoreYou are flight when you would have been sure you’d fight.
Read MoreWhen you do see your best friend again, you are much worse than “that couple.”
Read MoreAt any given point, you have one (maybe two) best friends who are your entire life.
Read MoreWhen your light shined on me, it was everything. But when it was shining somewhere else, it was so cold.
Please, don’t forget about all the nights you cried till you had no tears left. Don’t ever forget about why you broke up.
What you don’t understand is nothing that’s worthwhile is ever easy.
You loved your ex more than you have ever loved anyone - but falling in love with someone should never result in falling out of love with yourself.
But the bottom line is, I don’t care what the reason was. I’m done hearing your excuses.
Most importantly, you are falling back in love with yourself. You are taking your life back from what broke you.
You did the hardest break-up that your heart will ever have to endure. You need to understand how brave you are.
You just don’t feel the need to go out of your way to be fake nice for people to accept or like you.
I’m not talking about the men. I’m talking about the douchelords - the guy that demonstrates all the qualities of being a douche so well, he could in fact be a deity among douches.
If someone is appearing thoughtless, they are not thinking about you. It’s not complicated.
You are not anyone’s “almost,” option or booty call. You are not a convenience, temporary satisfaction or an obligation.
The entirety of your being is a conundrum.
Ironically, my anxiety also keeps me moving forward.
With my blog I try to provide inspirational insights into and different ways of looking at every day life struggles.
I write about dating, love, relationships, introverted extroverts, emotional support, change, hope, anxiety, courage, children of divorce.
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When she does open up to you, it’s everything. Being emotionally naked with someone is how she expresses her love.