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there’s a reason why you keep letting him back in.

Take a chance on yourself and watch as your whole life begins to change. 

If you want easy, if you want normal, if you don’t want to put in effort, you’re dating the wrong girl.

Before you know it, it’s destroying you. It’s so hard to process. There’s something about your connection that takes you to a place where no one else can.

Maybe they’re so afraid of getting close that they’ll push you away before you get the chance to leave yourself. 

They do this to control you, because they know how amazing you are, because they know that you could have anyone and be happy without them. 

The truth is, everyone can look into their past and blame something or someone for the way they are or the way their life turned out. But this will not make your life better. This will not facilitate change.

It’s like one moment she’s extroverted, the next introverted - you can’t ever seem to figure her out. 

I don't want to let any more time go by without telling you what you meant to me. 

You think you could have done things differently. You think that if you could do things over again, you would make it work. But the truth is, you gave it everything you had.

Your path may be more challenging, but it is also so much more compelling. 

You never have to feel that you deserve feeling so conflicted. You never have to feel that love has to be this way. 

While they can rule the world with their passion, they need to have patience, too.

If you say you love her, never take her love for granted. Never think you have her, even though her heart is yours.

You feel naked and vulnerable and you don’t know what to do next. You’re thinking, this is why I’m so stingy with trust. This is why I have so many walls.

There’s a lot of layers to you, and at times you struggle with knowing what to do with them. You’re untamed and raw - but also reserved. 

She doesn’t need you to say I like you or I love you because you feel like that’s what she wants to hear. She doesn’t need you to do things because it’s the “right thing to do.”

The person who we fall in love with has the full power to destroy us - and sometimes they do. 

If we were still us, I’d still feel like a little kid. I’d still wake believing true love conquers all.

The truth about starting over is that it is the best thing you will ever do. But it will also be the hardest thing.

But like every other time before, your blissful reverie quickly turns sour, things turn dark so fast that you don’t even have time to think, only to feel how hurt you are. 

It’s so easy to get caught up in your own head and believe you’re behind where you’re supposed to be for your age or that a single mistake is the end of the world. 

Don't let this love get discarded for the next hit because you’re mad, too stubborn or can’t let go of something in the past.

And maybe, just maybe, you not being there, was the biggest blessing in disguise.  

And you’ve gotten so close to moving on, but for some reason, something is always off...

Be with someone who would never risk losing you. 

No, dating you was not the end of their liberty; it was the beginning of it. But this is not what they’ll tell people. This is not what they’ll tell themselves.  

Not for ‘the one,’ not for someone to complete you, and especially, especially, not for them to change.

He can’t value you more than you value yourself.

Never let any circumstance get in the way of putting her first. 

You learn to take your life back from what broke you.